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The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

As Kobe Bryant once said, “There is power in understanding the journey of others to help create your own.” That’s why the Learning Leader Show exists—to understand the journeys of other leaders so that we can better understand our own. This show is full of learnings taught by world-class leaders—personal stories of successes, failures, and lessons learned along the way. Our guests come from diverse backgrounds—CEOs of multi-billion dollar companies, best-selling authors, Navy SEALs, and professional athletes. My role in this endeavor is to talk to the most thoughtful, accomplished, and intentional leaders in the world so that we can learn from them as we each create our own journeys.
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Jan 28, 2019

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

#295: Todd Herman - Using Alter Egos To Transform Your Life

To read the full show notes, go to www.LearningLeader.com

Notes:

  • Commonalities of sustaining excellence:
    • "Negative capability" (John Keats term)
      • The ability to pursue your dream despite the fact that circumstance tells you it won't happen.
      • Not losing faith despite the long odds
      • Mental toughness - "The ability to be flexible & adaptable despite what the world is throwing at you."
  • The OPP framework for goal setting:
    • Outcome
    • Performance - Resources
    • Process - Who, what, when, where
  • What Todd does?
    • He's on a mission to give people smart thinking models.  He helps ambitious people.
    • Revenue generation: He's built programs and systems and licensed it to sports teams
    • He does sport science and peak performance coaching
    • Grew up doing speaking competitions.
      • Did 68 speeches in 90 days.  All for free.  Have to "get the reps"
  • "This is how I know I've made it... I loved doing a free speech for four people.  I loved it!"
  • "You must show up.  Continue to show up no matter what.  Even if nobody is there, show up anyway."
  • "The answers are never waiting for you to sit still. The answers are out there doing it.  It's action that matters."
  • How Todd developed strong mental toughness?
    • Rough upbringing -- He was sexually abused at a church camp when he was 12
    • He retreated and developed mental toughness to deal with it
  • Skills developed as an athlete that translated to life outside of sports:
    • Preparation
    • Routines
    • Visualization/Imagery
  • Why are alter-egos so powerful?
    • They help you get into flow state and not get out of your head
  • The Bo Jackson story -- "Bo Jackson never played a down of football.  It was Jason from Friday The 13th.  I was crazy out there."
Jan 21, 2019

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

Episode #294: Warren Berger - How To Ask More Beautiful Questions

  • Commonalities of sustaining excellence:
    • Intelligent... Smart
    • Hard-working
    • Ambitious
    • Humble -- This is a really important quality.  No ego or arrogance.  They admit when they are wrong.  Willing to acknowledge when they're wrong.  They are open to listening to others and their ideas.
    • Curiosity - They are not trapped by their own expertise.  They are open minded, curious, looking around.
    • Able to adapt
    • Communication skill -- The willingness and ability to ask great questions
  • The genesis of becoming a questionoligist -- Warrens calls himself a questionoligist.  The art and science of asking questions.
    • He originally was a journalist and developed a skill for asking questions doing that job.
    • "Questioning was a tool of the trade"
  • Warren was writing about design and the idea of questioning kept coming up with leaders in business.
    • "The ability to ask good questions would lead them thru the innovation cycle."
  • The holy trinity of questioning:
    • Why?  Trying to understand
    • What if?  Ideation, brainstorming
    • How?  Get practical.  "How can we take the first step?"
  • Big open ended questions -- They are the stems
    • Each one does something completely different
  • Questioning as a manager:
    • Find time to have the conversations and ask questions of your team members
    • Must be thoughtful and prepared
    • We've gotten out of the habit of being questioners, and now it's always about doing.  "Slow down, ask questions.  Why are we pursuing this strategy? Understand why?"

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Jan 14, 2019

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

Episode #293: Brent Beshore - How To Get Rich Slow & Live An Optimal Life

  • Commonalities of sustaining excellence:
    • The usual things like: integrity and hard work
    • But the best... "know how messy they are, they challenge themselves, they have high level of self-awareness, they need people around them to help.  They acknowledge their imperfections, and they give others grace for their imperfections."
  • How to develop self awareness? 
    • Surround yourself with people who will tell you the truth -- "We are all highly imperfect."
    • Give people a true open invitation to criticize, but they also must be constructive, loving, kind, thoughtful people.
      • "They need to be rooting for you."\
  • What do you look for in someone to work with?
    • Curiosity - an inherent desire to know more, learn, reconstruct reality
    • Self awareness - genuine intellectual honesty
    • Integrity - function of consistency over time.  Have to reconstruct it
Jan 7, 2019

The Learning Leader Show With Ryan Hawk

Episode #292 - Beth Comstock: You Don't Need Permission (Former GE Vice Chair)

Beth Comstock spent nearly three decades at GE. As Chief Marketing Officer and then Vice Chair of Innovation, she led efforts to accelerate new growth, develop digital and clean-energy futures, seed new businesses and enhance brand value.  As President of Integrated Media at NBC Universal, she oversaw TV ad revenue and digital media efforts, including the early development of Hulu. Prior to this, she held roles at NBC, CBS and CNN/Turner Broadcasting.

Her first book, Imagine it Forward, was published in September 2018. She is a director at Nike, and trustee of The National Geographic Society. 

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"You must grab agency.  You don't always need permission."

Show Notes:

  • Commonalities of sustaining excellence:
    • "They don't stop. They keep coming back.  There is an inherent belief that tomorrow is another day.  They have great stamina."
    • Examples: Jeff Bezos (Amazon), Mary Barra (GM)
  • What was it like being hired by Jack Welch (including the story of Jack offering her the big promotion)
  • "You know you can't say no to Jack Welch and GE.  It fascinated me."
  • Jeff Immelt -- "He lives to deliver for the customer"
  • Take us back to 1985... Beth is in her mid-20's, she's hiding behind the door as her husband tells her mom that they are getting a divorce.
    • "It was a defining moment.  I was willfully choosing an unfamiliar path.  It felt like a failure."
    • "In times of change, you have a choice to figure it out."
  • JR, the bad boss... We've all had bad bosses.  How to deal with it? "He was a gatekeeper, just said no.  So, I wrote a report, shared it with others, gave it to him.  He rejected all of it.  So I left to go to Ted Turner's CNN."
    • "You must grab agency.  You don't always need permission."
  • "No means 'not yet'"
  • The difference between gatekeepers and goalkeepers:
    • Goalkeepers clear the way, they help you.  Gatekeepers do the opposite."
  • Common mistakes the new manager makes and how to avoid them:
    • Understand the responsibility
    • Find a way to be secure in yourself.  A lot of mistakes are made out of insecurity.
    • "I was not good at giving feedback.  Good or bad.  I didn't communicate well initially."
    • "You need to get to know your team very well.  Know them as individuals.  Connect with them.  People don't want to be managed or controlled, they want to be led. There is a difference."
    • Mentors: "I was a 30 year old first time manager and I didn't have good mentors.  I was afraid to reach out to people for help.  Find a series of people to be your board of advisors.  You will need it."
  • The "Steve Jobs recruited me" story -- "This was right before the iPhone came out.  He said, 'We're going to do some really big things here and I want you to be part of it.'  It wasn't right for my family to move out there at that time though.  I made the pro and con list and the move was too powerful.  So I said no.  There are days where I regret it."
  • The difference between Jack Welch and Jeff Immelt:
    • "Both were good leaders.  Jeff championed people and fully supported me."
    • "They led in different times.  It's a shame that they get compared when they led in two completely different eras."
  • "Tell me something I don't want to hear." -- Why this is a powerful exercise all leaders need to do with their teams on a regular basis.
    • "Success theater" was an initiative.  It's meant to crack bureaucracy.  "Jeff Immelt was actually trying to make it better through doing this.  You need that feedback loop."
  • Hiring:  What does Beth look for in a candidate?
    • Curiosity - Open and eager to learn
    • A quest for excellence - Do they actively strive to be better?
    • Others provide references on their behalf
    • Trial run - "Try, then buy."  Simulate the role
    • Hire someone who knows what you don't - Hire for your weaknesses
  • How to handle an environment as a woman leader surrounded by men?
    • "I'm a creative woman.  I came to appreciate my differences.  I became this small, quiet, rebel. Forge a different path.  Learn how to get comfortable doing this."
    • Advice to men? "I'm so glad you're asking this.  Be open.  Listen.  Talk with females at work. Have open dialog.  Ask questions how you can do better."
    • "Assume nobel intent."
  • How to "imagine it forward?"
    • "Data is squeezing imagination from us." -- "Open yourself to new people and ideas."
    • "Pattern recognition"
    • "Scenario planning"
    • Think "What if I were the customer? What if I were the competitor?  What would I do?"
  • Leading as an introvert.  Most great introvert leaders have these useful qualities:
    • Introspective
    • Good listener
    • Understand how to manage their energy
      • Find time to recharge
  • Why joining The Learning Leader Circle is a good idea
  • Use the "Get To Know You Document"

"I'm a creative woman.  I came to appreciate my differences.  I became this small, quiet, rebel. Forge a different path.  Learn how to get comfortable doing this."

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